Got back together again with the guy I was seeing, at his behest. Am I stupid? He says he'll work on some of the issues we'll have. Either way, I'm planning on scaling back how I've been treating him (less like a boyfriend, more like casual dating).

If there's one thing I know, it's that confidence is attractive. I'm still this mess of insecurity about him, and I need to ignore this or there's no way it'll work out.

Is it even possible to date someone while I'm feeling like this towards them? How can I act naturally around him?