At work, when I don't let people push me around, I get called rude and unfriendly Then there are the times where I don't speak up and let people do whatever, and I get called soft and get passed over for promotions. What. To. Do?? I generally speak with a higher pitched voice and god forbid I ever lower it. Random Sunday thought....

Otherwise, I am so excited about all the gifts I bought this year. I went ALL OUT.