I'm getting married next year and I think some sort of premarital counseling would be good, but I don't really want to go with a religious program, since that's one of the issues I think we need to discuss (he's religious, I'm not - I don't want to be ganged up on). Does anyone have a program they recommend? Or has anyone done any sort of workbook with their partner that was helpful? I'm thinking that might be a good place to start and pinpoint issues that should maybe be explored further.