Okay so I'm really trying not to attract a Friday llama but a friend and I keep going in circles about this and I need to make sure I'm using the right words. Especially if I decide to post something I've been working on bit-by bit about not wanting children.

I do not want children that makes me a child-free person. A person who wants children but can't have them (medical or otherwise) would be child-less. Correct?

She thinks anyone who is an adult without a child is child-less. I think the distinction is super important not because I enjoy being divisive but because those are two very different scenarios that get lumped together by those with children.

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I've been reading Amy Poehler's book, and she sums up perfectly how women should be treating each other's choices. "Good for you. Not for me."