I am just going to drop this link to xojane here. This "It Happened to Me" is more like, "I Happened to Myself and I Happen to be the Worst Ever". White girl is sad, because one "fairly heavy black woman" (her words) shows up at her yoga class and feels out of place and then white girl feels "racially charged anger" directed at her. The self awareness is lacking in this one. The comments are GOOD though.