Advice me please! Any one ever un-invited someone from their bridal party? How did you go about it? Were you awash with regrets or relieved at the storm blowing over? If this person was hypothetically your little sister, beloved favorite of your parents, spoiled brat extraordinaire did your parents give you crap about it? How do you go about inviting a replacement without making them feel second string? All this stress was definitely worth it when you finally married your beloved, yes? What if you never wanted any bridesmaids in the first place and this is all your fiance’s idea and dammit he’s lucky you love him cause people are so much work sometimes?

Alas, I did not mean giving them boots to wear, although it’s awfully cute. Probably not practical for a desert wedding.