I’ve been dating a guy for a bit, we went from seeing each other daily to LDR . He won’t be home for the holiday this weekend but his family was sweet enough to invite me to brunch. I accepted and told my family, thinking that it’d be fine if I stopped by later in the day. I just got a Facebook message from my mom, and she’s now upset about this.My sister is the host, and she doesn’t really cook much so I figured it wouldn’t matter, especially dropping off candy for the kids in the noon. I’m just annoyed now, because I’ve been single forever and I am very much a family person. I’m with my family basically all of the time. I didn’t feel like one holiday would matter, and none of us our even religious so there’s that too.

Am I being shitty? How do you handle families and the holiday?