So there've been a few guys that I dated for 3-5 months, then broke it off. These guys were all really great, awesome dudes, I just didn't like them as much as they liked me and I figured it'd be kinder to end it sooner rather than later. In fact, they were so awesome that I kind of miss them and wish that we could still be friends.

Is that strange or unfair? The two guys I'm thinking of were both fairly hurt when I broke it off. We are at the age (I'm 29, they were 31 and 33, respectively) where people start taking relationships more seriously, and it seemed like part of why they were so hurt is because they saw longterm potential in our relationship.

I've been toying with the idea of messaging them and asking them to hang out. Is this being really insensitive of me?