It's not one-sided. My friends listen to me when I want/need to talk. But I solve problems at work all week, and I really just want to have fun when I'm not working. I don't want to hear how you're processing your breakup with your thug boyfriend that we all said "DON'T DATE!" I seriously just can't with every breakthrough you have with your new bf (another friend.) And on and on and on. If it were broken up with fun, that would be fine. But it's all emo, all the time with my friends, and I'M OVER IT!
I've been the "talk it out" person for a long time and I'm fucking tired of it. I don't have the energy for it right now. That might make me kind of selfish, because I'm in a good place right now and I don't have much I need support on. But seriously friends...can we please just have some damn fun? I don't want to talk about anyone's damn feelings. I just. want. fun.
I'm going to end up a damn hermit. I need new friends.