Don't worry guise. It's no big thing. This is our when Mr. Haa and I started dating anniversary and since it's so close to the holidays we've only ever celebrated it with spending time together, going out to dinner, celebratory sex, minor stuff. A lot of people say we should stop acknowledging this anniversary now that we got married 4 years ago but we started dating very quickly after we met in high school and have been together for almost 7 years before we got married. I can't throw away 7 years of my relationship with him when people ask how long we've been together. Especially when I so fondly still remember that first NYE we spent together at a high school keg party and deciding to date 3 days later at another, we found out we were pregnant last year January 4th, January has meant a lot to our relationship. We've been together for 11 years total and thinking about it makes me incredibly proud, defensive, unsure. We've both changed a lot from our teenage selves but one thing has always been constant. Our love. This year we have the baby, so we probably won't even go out to dinner but I really want to do something special to thank him for all he's done this past year for our family. And no, he hasn't been perfect but he's done a hell of a lot more than a lot of people would. And he's still here so that counts for something.