I think my relationship is over. I love this man desperately but I could tell he that he wasn't quite there yet. He loves me, but he's still had one foot out the door. Tonight he said that he needs time to figure out why and to decide whether or not he thinks it's fixable. I told him not to call me unless he decides that this is what he wants. But even if he does, I don't think I have it in me to get past his readiness to just get up and leave.