It is so not funny to joke about if my husband wants to kill me all he needs to do is feed me something I’m allergic to.
The friend of many years, who should have known better, modified an item on the menu at his restauarant so I could eat it without ending up back in the ER!
On the other hand he’s also one of the people years ago who said “Really? But he’s such a good guy”
So yeah, jokes about dv are about as funny as jokes about rape.