Why, yes, I was away for like a year and then started posting obsessively looking for help (it’s the summer; indulge me).

My husband’s a human Budweiser horse, both in hairiness and in being a workhorse. Today, he decided what better way to deal with his grandma’s passing (thanks for your help with the flowers!) is to build a bed. So off to Ikea we went and came back with a new bed with storage. And then, after insisting I just watch, asks me to get a new mattress while he’s gone at the funeral so he has something nice to come back to.

Everyone I know hates their mattresses or spent $$$$$ and their first born on a therapudic. I was looking at Tuft and Needle, Casper, and Leesa, but now have no idea. Anyone have a good experience? We’d prefer a firmer sleep.