Ugh. You guys. I am *the* most punctual person. If I need to be somewhere at a certain time, I always arrive either on time or 15 minutes early.

This is just how I am, and how I assume most people are, right?

MitsuBT is perpetually late. He gets a pass today because it's his birthday, but I'm seriously getting annoyed. Today he says, I'll be there at 6:30, then follows up with, I'm leaving my place no later than 6:30, then texts at 6:40 saying he's on his way. Argh.

If he says he's going to be somewhere by 7, I know now I should plan on 7:45.

I've made a joking reference to his perpetual tardiness, but that didn't do anything (duh), so I think I'm going to have to have a serious talk about this. It drives me up the freaking wall. Unless I'm in the wrong and should just chillax. It's been so long since I've been in a serious relationship, I forgot how I'm supposed to deal with stuff like this. Not like my last relationship was super healthy or anything anyway.

So...am I too uptight about this? We are on "island time" here. :-|

Do your SO's do things that drive you absolutely crazy? How do you deal with it?

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Edit: He was on time/early for our first date, so I know he's capable of planning ahead. ;)