So, I am a few weeks from going into labor with my first child. My husband and I really haven't had sex for the past two months. A big part of that was he was on an antidepressant where he could not finish. He is on a new medicine but I have been in too much physical pain to do it. We both really miss sex and I want to take advantage of the next month to be intimate.

But I really, really want to start getting dilated. Does anyone recommend a good lubricant or position to make it more comfortable? We have been using just cheap lube and it isn't 100 percent comfortable so I don't know if a better lube or position would help. We have been doing it doggy style and it is ok... Missionary hurts like hell.