So I have been a commenter here for years now and it is kind of (really) annoying that if I post on the mainpage it is shuffled into pending comments and someone has to recommend it. every. damn. time. Is this going to change anytime soon?

In other news, I decided to be spontaneous and go visit my ex. We have had a ton of Adult Discussions About Things, and we have set up some really good boundaries. We both mean a lot to one another, but we're both still in this horrible transitional period know as 'your mid 20's' so we've agreed to avoid any romantic entanglements for the sake of a possible future together. I had another date with the guy who lives here and he is still wonderful. For those of you just tuning in, he is graduating in May and plans to leave the city at the end of the summer. So we are having a great time together but I know I will probably cry about it later because it's hard to meet a genuinely sweet and conscientious guy who is also really smart, creative, hot, and good in bed. Thanks as always to everyone who gave me advice!