So I've been seeing and messing around with this guy. I like him, he's nice looking, witty, dresses well (this is a huge plus for me because I'm super shallow) and we have fun together. Two things are making me hesitant and I'd like a little hivemind input.

1. I just want something casual, but I get the impression he's more serious. I haven't brought this up yet, but I plan on doing so the next time I see him.

2. Dunno how much I is TMI, but there are some sex issues, things I want that I'm not sure he'll be able to deliver. Also plan on bringing this up next time (damn, this is going to be a really fun date).

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I'd feel like an asshole dumping a guy because of sex (it's not bad, just ...missing some things), but what do you all think? And what's your opinion on dating someone who's more into you than you are into them? Is it cruel?