...you discover the guy you've been exchanging long and intimate emails with for the past month is actually married.
(This isn't the guy I mentioned in this other post. He and I are not exclusive and it's all above board.)
Anyway. Yeah. We met online and have been exchanging correspondence a couple times a week for over a month now. He's been living abroad for several years and is returning to Canada next month. He told me his ex had left last year. But very basic internet sleuthing has recently revealed that she really did not. I am 99% sure they are still very much together and he's a lying liar-face.
I'm really glad I figured this out before it went any further. But I don't really know how to handle this.