Hi everyone! Long time no write. I wanted to consult my favorite ladies on the Internet for some advice.

Got my IUD out on March 29. It hasn’t been a lot of time, but I’ve managed to stress myself out about conceiving at this early date. We’ve been having a few problems that cause a lot of stress (major legal troubles for a family member, plus a client of mine in a huge case died unexpectedly).

I’m exercising and trying to cut down on wine, which is of course difficult in the Trump era. I’m mainly wondering what changes people made if they successfully got pregnant, if you tracked ovulation closely, how you communicated with your partners (mine feels a lot of pressure if I make clear that it’s the “right time” to try), and how long it took. Any and all advice would be so appreciated!