I just got back from my annual with my gyn and got my birth control prescription renewed (I suffer from heavy periods). I didn't have to get a pap smear this time since I am not sexually active but she still used the speculum (is that what it's called?) and I totally freaked out because it hurt A LOT this time. Usually it hurts and I am in pain but this time I screamed a bit. I started bleeding 'cause of it and she said I may be spotting for the next 2 days. :(

I'm starting to feel like I should just start having sex now 'cause this is too stressful every year to have that thing go up me and then her finger. I cannot...