My ex broke up with me back in November. It was kind of odd and out of left field and I didn't know what was going on or why. Before he left, he told me that he still loved me and wanted me to be a part of his life....fast track five months later and I haven't heard from him and have only seen him twice in public. But today he sent me a Facebook message. He said that he's been thinking about me, and that he feels really guilty about how he ended things and apologized. He said that this isn't a desperate attempt to get me back, he just wants to reconnect (if I do). I'm torn. On one hand, I want answers. And I want to hear him say that he's sorry. And I truly want to know how he has been; we were in love and he was one of my best friends! But on the other hand, I have worked so hard to get over him (and admittedly, I'm not completely recovered). And I don't want him to hear about how lame my life has been since we split. Ughhhhh....what to do, what to do.