Between the disappearing posts, my reading on the phone and people's comments on kinja problems, I can't really tell what's going on. But unless you want to be in a frothing rage, don't read the comments. It's like dude-bro Bingo over there: "lucky dude!" check. Sexism, check. Ageism, check. Free-floating aggression, check. Mindless Jezebel bashing, check. Etc. Etc.