I'm going to my first friend's wedding next weekend. I'm also in the bridal party. With all the hoopla, I totally forgot to buy a gift. Most of the stuff on the registry is taken, except for some really pricey or really cheap things.

What's the deal with going off registry for a wedding gift? If I get a gift certificate for a couples massage, is that strange or weird? How much do people spend on wedding gifts when you're a mid20something who spent a ton of cash on being part of le special day (which I'm SO thrilled about.. I'm just running low on fuel and not wanting to offend)?

I'm so excited to go celebrate. Can't believe I forgot about a wedding gift ayyyy