It's done! Went with nude pumps from target (not the stripper height but not kitten heel). Nude hose because I couldn't find nude fishnets. Pearl necklace and earrings from target and the bracelet that has pink accents (picks up the pink in the shoes. I feel a little Donna Reed with the earrings but not insufferably so. Accessories cost more than the dress did! But I think I'll get some mileage out of the pumps.
Thank you GroupThink for your help!!!