Is there a term for those little tidbits of information you pull out to win points with people who are judgey mcjudgers? In the eyes of many of the guests at Mr.TenInch’s sister’s wedding (mostly old friends of their family, and her in-laws) we are unapologetic sinners who are going to hell. So at different points of the day I let things slip about being on the youth group worship team or my mom being a missionary in South America. Just little tidbits to bring up my standing in the eyes of these people. Was that wrong of me? Should I have just let them think what they think and given no fucks? Do any of you guys do this too?