I have a friend from HS who announced on Facebook that she was pregnant about a month ago. She was maybe a month or so along.
Today, she posted that God had other plans for the baby.
One of the first comments? Advice that now is the time to start 'living well'. "NO alcohol NO bad food". You know, because her time will come but only if she treats her body as some future baby holding temple. I don't even CARE how well meaning this advice was.
I'm so full of rage on behalf of this girl, who is my age, recently married, and who so clearly wanted the child. That is so far beyond the realm of acceptable.
Please, if a friend of yours suffers something like that, do not give them advice on how to get pregnant again. Just fuckin' support them. I realize I'm preaching to the choir here, but OH MY GOD I CANNOT EVEN.