So I’m on OKC and I’ve posted a very detailed list of what I’m looking for on Craigslist.

  • On OKC, I had to finally block the guy I went on two dates with because he kept sending me mopey messages...I think I broke him.
  • Was having a fine conversation over the last few days with a different guy from OKC. We set up a date for Wednesday. Today, we chatted on the phone briefly, in which he called without asking (fine) and I was not being a great conversationalist because I was tired, and I told him so. 10 minutes later, he cancels our date because he thought he was irritating me, and he couldn’t imagine how I’d handle an actual date with him. I told him that wasn’t the case, but I wasn’t going to push the issue. (But seriously, that’s enough to end what was a really easy back-and-forth? people are so fucking trigger happy)
  • My ad on Craigslist was super. fucking. detailed. And honest, almost ridiculously so. YET, the two people I am talking to as a result of the ad both asked me what I’m looking for. WHY IN THE HELL DID I WRITE THIS THING IF YOU’RE NOT GOING TO ACTUALLY PAY ATTENTION TO IT?