My sister who is a minister, posted this to Facebook this evening. It's a very different take on what modesty means. The author's three main points are:
1. We turn modesty into objectification when we hold women responsible for the thoughts and actions of men.
2. We turn modesty into objectification when we assume there are single standards that apply to all people in all cultures.
3. Finally, we turn modesty into objectification when we make women ashamed of their bodies.
The author also says that when the Bible talks about dressing modestly, it is really talking about not showing off one's wealth, rather than one's body.