I was just scrolling through the Saturday night social open thread post, and noticing all the greyed comments, which are perfectly nice comments, but are being completely ignored by the "in" crowd. And I feel bad for them.

I'm in the greys over there, and I've found that unless you are replying to someone who already knows you, you'll be ignored.

That's not usually the case over here. As as much as we have our occasional spats and tension, we usually bring reasonable people out of the greys pretty quickly.

Or am I seeing GT through rose coloured glasses?

ETA; it's 2 a.m. and I'm packing it in for now.