Guy:

Me: Me writing an email

The email: Ya, do you want to go out and do this thing [that we mutually enjoy]?

15 minutes Later

guy:

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Me:

Me: Does this time work for you?

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Guy:

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I do not understand humans.

I’ve had several emails with guy where it’s like “Oh I’m excited to hear about this thing, or do this thing. Yes we should totally play that game.” But when I ask about doing it (e.g like going for coffee or playing a boardgame) he disappears.

Is this the ‘negging’? Or something. Is this suppose to make me feel bad and then I get desperate? Or some shit, because I’m too damn robotic to play these weird human mating games. All I got out of this is that he is unreliable. I could sit here and be like “oh maybe it’s anxiety or five million other things.”** Yes, I kinda like you, but this is super annoying.

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Like what the fuck? Shit or get off the pot.

** there is a factor that’s ‘like anxiety’ which I’ve given more leeway to him than I would say to someone who I didn’t know had that kind of issue. At this point I’ll probably just stand down and we’ll have our friendly banter in person at another event. I really needed to just say “FUCK” out loud.