Even if Jezebel is acting like a total skeeze...and has been probably for longer than I’ve ever wanted to admit (still have love for Bobby Finger though).

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/17/opinion/aziz-ansari-metoo-sex.html

“The notion of affirmative consent did not fall from space in October 2017 to confound well-meaning but bumbling men; it was built, loudly and painstakingly and in public, at great personal cost to its proponents, over decades...Nuanced conversations about consent and gendered socialization have been happening every single day that Aziz Ansari has spent as a living, sentient human on this earth. The reason they feel foreign to so many men is that so many men never felt like they needed to listen.”