One of my former best friends is someone I can't stand anymore, but she's still my sorority sister. I guess I just want to vent about her...I saw her today with a faculty member on my campus who I got close to and who wrote me a recommendation letter. They got close because this faculty member asked me if I could ask my former friend about being part of a study she's doing after they met a few times. Anyway, they are close now and that's fine. But I highly doubt this faculty member knows how much of a manipulative, competitive, mean person my former friend is. That bothers me, but I can't do anything about it, unfortunately. And I hate that I lost that relationship I had with the faculty member, but I guess that's my fault in a way.
Just to give you an idea, I spontaneously decided to run for an exec board position for my Greek council on the day of elections because no one was running. I won against one other person. Afterwards, my former friend told some of my other friends/sisters that she should've been the one to run and that she didn't think I would do a good job. This was my first REAL leadership role, and I was so excited and proud of myself. Yeah, what a shitty, jealous "friend."