who really needs some solid advice. (and kinja won’t let me do a straightforward share, and I’m just a sharin’ fool today!). Their post in an open thread got buried, so I’m doing an independent post, because I think it’s of real concern.

http://groupthink.kinja.com/ok-so-i-m-not-…

ETA: if you have any advice for graciesaur, click on the link to reply.