I am so fucking sick of that idiotic attempt at a rhetorical move. See also: "If a man had done this...." "Why is it okay for gay people (/people of a different race/insert X socioeconomic group) to say that, but I can't?" "Reverse racism!"
All things are not equal. Jesus Christ. I wish I had a remote control where I could take away people's ability to comment on the internet for a period of time after saying such stupid shit.