Who the hell decided that the coffee date is the standard online dating meet & greet. They totally suck! They're weird and boring and awkward, and there's nothing to do except stare at each other over your drink. It's like a weird interview/networking thing. I've never dated, or even kissed anyone I met on a coffee date. When a guy suggest a coffee date, it's an instant turnoff for me. It says "I'm awkward and boring and can't think of anything better to do." It's probably just me, but I haaaaaaaate them.