I have coarse, very wavy (sometimes curly) hair, and I do "low-poo" - shampoo about every two weeks. I mostly detangle with my fingers or pick with a comb sometimes, but when I get to the last few days before I wash....it is bad news. I feel that wetting without the rest of the washing process seems to make me super frizzy. I do not want to resort to washing more than necessary, so I am polling for everyone's process! Do you have a miracle product for this? Voodoo spells?