UPDATE (8:18 pm 5/29): Just got off the phone with Momlock. She didn’t sound scared, so that was a good sign. Dadlock is out of surgery. According to his doctors he is improving quite nicely. The doctors are going to see how he does overnight, and they will go from there. Best case scenario is he is discharged on Thursday. Thank you everyone for your support. It means a lot to me even though I didn’t respond to anyone. I just didn’t want to think or deal with it.
Original post: Dadlock is being prepped for surgery.
Yesterday (his birthday) he couldn’t sit up without extreme pain and nausea.
I found out this morning literally as I was dropping Bralock off at LaGuardia. She is flying to Chicago for a conference. She gets back Thursday evening.
I live 2000 miles away. I am staying in New York for now. I even have the fun of working today on a major US holiday. If I wasn’t at work I would be drunk right now because I don’t process my feelings well.