I met a guy tonight who is really cute and seemed smart and funny. We talked for a while and it seemed really promising...until he mentioned that he writes poetry. RIP ladyboner.

I know a lot of women would love that and I suppose it's possible that it's actually good, but realistically it would just mean a lot of dreading being asked to read it (or worse, listen to it) and then making noncommittal comments. I feel like a jerk, but I'm just not interested in pretending to like it and he's much better off finding someone who's into it.

Do you guys have any dealbreakers that you feel bad about, or am I too judgmental?