I have almost been on okcupid for a week and while I have not gotten a lot of messages, I have gotten messages, and for that I am grateful. I have gotten compliments from two different people sending messages. One said that I looked pretty, and the other one said that I had good taste. Frankly, I was much more flattered by the compliment of my taste than the one on my appearance. I wonder what kind of compliments are you more flattered by? Do you enjoy validation of your natural flawlessness, or do you enjoy validation of your natural radness?