I don't know, I've been worrying about this a lot lately. I still very much love my husband, and I know he loves me, but we are both miserable right now. Sure, here and there we'll have a "good day" but for the most part neither of us seem to be doing so well at being a good spouse to the other.

I don't see any way out of whatever cycle we're in. I'm depressed, he's stressed out, and we're both lonely. Please tell me this is just me being paranoid and that it will end.