Why do people need to say that "it's more" that Donald Sterling is controlling/insecure/misogynist/misanthropist than that he's a racist. Do you have to lynch someone in your front yard before we get to say

without someone jumping in to explain how that's not quite right? I find these Jezebel comments confounding. This one isn't quite as bad, but why do we need to invent "rexism"? "Intersectionality" isn't enough of a mouthful?

Granddad, if people are looking for a black best friend, do you offer a special Jezebel rate?

ETA (edited to ask): Why do "news" accounts say that Stiviano is being sued "by the Sterlings"?