These were the first words I heard this morning. My mother sleeps with our two 15 pound male and female dogs. Almost every morning the dogs wake up and fight, well she fights he wants to be left alone. Odd they curl up to each other one minute and she fights the next minute then washes his face a minute after that.

Well this morning they fought and yup I woke up hearing "Don't grab his dinky". Often when they fight she grabs him at that spot with her mouth. I doubt its sexual, she also tries getting his back legs. Note she does not bite down.

My mother always scolds her when she does this and then the dog immediately starts washing his face.

Do your female dogs do this? I assume its to establish dominance and maybe for him to pay attention to her. They are both fixed.