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Final post about the ex-friend situation

I sent her this message:

I know you don’t want to hear from or speak to me, for whatever reason. I just have a few things I want to get off my mind and then I’ll leave you alone. This abrupt end to friendships and relationships seems to be an ongoing pattern of behavior and I worry about its impact on your life, personally and professionally. In terms of its impact on me on a personal level, I have to say that the timing is incredibly hurtful. It feels as if you’ve decided to cut me off precisely because I’ve become more independent, stable, and progressing in my life; I don’t know if you’re lashing out out of jealousy, whether we’re at different stages in our lives, or if this is the start of a depressive episode or something else. I don’t think I’ve been rubbing anything in your face, but if I’m wrong I hope you would let me know. In any case, what you’ve done is always going to sting, and even if we do talk again in the future, I doubt things will be the same.“


This was her response:

1) Don’t worry about me. I’m not worried about you. Let’s assume we’ve both landed on our feet. 2) This isn’t jealousy about your independence. The timing was actually to not be friends by my birthday. Mission accomplished 3) Nothing will be the same between us ever again. I don’t want it to be. That was kind of the point”

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