I have a first date later today with a nice lady who I connected with on a dating app. I haven’t really connected with many women since I started making an effort to date (for several reasons that aren’t relevant here). So I started thinking. While I’ve enjoyed the company of women since I started dating, it was all organic or someone I already knew. It never started with an official “first date”. In fact, the last time I had an actual “first date” with a woman who was basically a stranger was almost 20 years ago because it was my wife. So, of course now I’ve made myself nervous which means I may accidentally act like a weirdo. Its a casual afternoon date at a wine bar near her place (we live about 20 miles away so I offered to go to her). Tips? Advice? Commiseration? All are welcome.