Hey, I’m not sure if I will format things correctly so the article link shows up but not first thing. I will also put it in comments because kinja can kinja. Anyway, I went through something with my ex where I wanted to say no but I couldn’t. He told he didn’t love me and then proceeded a nano second later to begin giving me an orgasm where I wanted to die during it. It messed me up for awhile sexually and psychologically. I had wanted to stop him but I couldn’t. I blamed that on a combo of it being hard for me to talk when upset and hard for me to talk while being too sexually stimulated. It might have also been freeze response. Apparently that’s a real documented response that we don’t talk about much. I figured it might help those of us that didn’t do anything to know more about this.