I'm still looking for the post someone wrote on abusive relationships.

It wasn't the gaslighting one from PackedLunch - of that I'm fairly certain. I've entered what key words into the search box that I can think of, so I'm guessing the post wasn't tagged with anything. Seeing as the post has melted into the ether, does anyone have any good articles saved that talk about emotionally abusive relationships? Or dealing with a passive aggressive partner, a manipulative partner, sexually abusive partner, partners with tempers, etc..