My father was a functional alcoholic. He was never abusive, although he had his he’s definitely drunk and really moody moments.
He especially would do this thing where he would ramble for HOURS and your attention was required.
My partner does this sometimes. Today, he got really drunk after work (not common) and became a version of my dad. I instantly bristled, I became irritable and I wanted NOTHING to do with him. I was really surprised by this feeling and immediately knew where it was coming from.
I do not like this kind of drunk.
I do not think my partner is an alcoholic, however I do not want this to be a constant in our life.
Am I being too sensitive? I know I need to say something but I am struggling to come up with something that isn’t “I AM NOT HERE FOR THIS”.