Do you value modesty? How do you define modesty? Why do you value or not value modesty? Do you think there is a correlation between gender and seeing modesty as a valued trait? #modestishottest ?

PS. I think modesty is highly overrated but I think women are socialized to value it too much from a young age. Men, not so much. I think overvaluing modesty among women leads us to think that we should take a back seat to men, unconsciously, otherwise we'll get a big head. It prevents us sometimes from putting ourselves out there as the best at something or as leaders. I think it leads to relational aggression between women, preventing us from fighting the real enemies.