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my sister's wedding is in two weeks. I just said goodbye to her today. I wasn't planning on going to the wedding because it's expensive, but minutes after we said goodbye my grandma texted me and offered to pay for my plane ticket. Now I don't know what to do. When I told my sister she said she doesn't even think I can be in the wedding anymore because "British wedding parties are usually small" (which...idk, I would move heaven and earth to have her be in my wedding party because she's my sister, but whatever). so that kind of hurt my feelings. And my mom hasn't decided to go yet, and I don't want her to feel left out. And it's so short notice I don't know how I'm going to juggle that with work. I just...part of me wants to go and part of me doesn't. (Back story here.) So let's put it to a vote. Do you or do you not think I should go to my sister's wedding?

ETA: Well, the vote is overwhelmingly that I should go. Which, dangit GT, why do you have to be right? That's what my gut tells me too, and I've had a premonition that someone was going to offer to pay my way since the beginning, but part of me liked having an excuse not to go because TBH my feelings are really hurt. Oh well, it's not about me, and I'm strong enough to do the right thing. At least it's a chance to travel!


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