Warning: the post to follow might be a bit self-indulgent.

I posted something similar on an open thread a few weeks ago, but since I'm in the grays on the front page it didn't really get seen, so I'm going to post the question again here in Groupthink.

My question is what makes you feel at home? Is it the physical location, people, work?

I ask because I've been feeling a bit unattached for the last few years. I feel like where I live now just isn't the right place for me, but at the same time I wonder if I'm just being angsty, because objectively my situation is pretty cushy even if I'm not exactly in love with it.

Also I like to hear nice stories about you groupthink people finding good places and people to be around!